19 Things You Should Never Say to a Single Person

Miss J had turned me to this blog featured on Glamour Magazines website. I wanted to post this because it's funny in a sense that I have to agree with Erin, I don't like the "cliches" of dating and hope I haven't used any of these. Otherwise, I'm going back in my previous posts and severly editing! -LA Bradshaw


SINGLE-ish (daily dating blog)
by Erin Meanley
As a writer, I avoid cliches like the plague...HAHA! But seriously, cliches are old, tired, and they show absolutely no thought. I mean, do I make you read that some guy’s skin was as white as snow? No. It’s a major insult to your intellect. So when I have to hear a cliche or overused saying in the real world, as a response to my newly single status or some other dating dilemma, it’s offensive and frustrating.

Why do we have so many sayings and maxims for dating?

Since we could all use a good laugh, I asked some friend, but I just couldn’t believe how many there were! Here’s a tiny compilation. Enjoy—today, they’re not directed at you!

• It happens when you’re not looking.There are plenty of fish in the sea.
• So, why are you single? 
• You’re too picky.
• You'll find the right person for you.He's out there. 
• It was just bad timing.
• Just have fun with it!
• Have you tried online dating? 
• He just wasn’t the right guy for you.
• Well, when Steve and I first got together... 
• When the time is right, you will meet someone.
• Wow, I wish I were single and in your shoes!
• Your turn next [at weddings].
• It will happen when you least expect it.
• Some guy is going to come along and ruin your career/life plans. 
• But you're so pretty! Why don't you have a boyfriend? 
• It just wasn't meant to be.

Bottom line, if you’re in a relationship or married and you don’t have any specific, original advice or wisdom for your single friend—and you must use an established saying—we would prefer to hear neutral ones like, “This too shall pass” or “Take it one day at a time.” They are so much more helpful and comforting—you have no idea!

Also of note: not one person I polled mentioned they were tired of hearing, "He's just not that into you." I think that's because it's not condescending. And apparently, it's not overused. So that one is still okay to say. Thanks for listening!

What saying do you hate to hear and why?