3-Date Fall Challenge

Oh, you're intrigued already?  There's more to this "idea" or "theory".

If you've never read Cindy Chupack's "The Between Boyfriends Book" (she was also a writer on Sex and the City) then you need to read up on "Halloweenies" before I post.

The 3-Date Fall Challenge is on!

Here's how we break it down, us single girls that is.  Los Angeles is full of singles, however not all of them are "available" in that we all are looking to be with someone we have a great time with, laugh with, have good chemistry with, but what gives? Why aren't we coupled up if we have so many options?  I refuse to admit that LA has it the worse when it comes to dating.  Now that me and my girlfriends are in our thirties, do we suddenly have to appoach dating different in hopes for different results?  The Trifecta discussed and we need to come up with a new objective: The 3-Date Challenge.

Here's the deal, three dates before Halloween.  Why? Because if you don't lock it in before Halloween, then Thanksgiving is apporaching and that's when you face the fall-off (guys decide not to commit because they can't commit to the holiday round up - meals with family or friends for Thanksgiving, Xmas with family or friends and then it's New Years.  Oh the pressure!  All the family and quality time with loved ones, apparently is too much for most guys - not all let me add.   Oh you think 3 dates before Halloween is a breeze???????  Well my friend, fellow reader, let me add to the pot, must be 3 dates with the SAME guy before Halloween.  Do you fold?  Or do you throw in another chip??

Ah, so you up for the challenge?  Awesome.  So far Miss J was the only one with the luck.  KGB went out once with Hottie Bartender, and even after our Trifecta affect, well she never heard from him again.  And me, well Mac already had shown me his cards -but talked like he was ready to enter back into the dating world - but alas, just a middle-aged man who is content with where life has led him.  Good for him and all, I mean when I ran into him a couple of weeks ago, all I could do was hug him hello, tell him that it was nice to see him (though it wasn't cause at that moment it had been 10 days without a call back, let alone a first date).  I am happy I stood my ground to not go there cause I am looking for a guy who can give me what I am looking for.  So back to Miss J - and Lumberjack.  First date went well that it lasted about 12 hours!  Second date, when that finaly happened was anotehr extend-a-date and seemed like she was going to lock in date #3 until she was left wondering when the hell that would happen.  Still waiting...

And here's what we (us women) know about date #3 - it's the gateway of what's to come so why do guys fear it?  Again, let me add not all guys are afraid, just most.  But you do know us women sit around and dicuss this kind of stuff when it comes to dating and can't help but wonder what's all the drama?  If you like us, just land the 3rd date.  We can figure out the rest as it comes!!